Bigger Better Tennis - Paul Dale

Stop Chasing Confidence. It's Not Important By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method Bad week of practice. Lost your last two matches. Feeling shaky when under pressure in matches? Everyone's advice? "Start working on your confidence!" Yeah. But will that work? The Confidence Trap Here's the problem with chasing confidence: You've often been through periods when your confidence is high and you go into matches feeling as good as you've ever felt—but eventually the same problems in your game surface, and the downward mental spiral begins again. It's circular. "I'll perform well when I feel confident" → "I'll feel confident when I perform well." You're stuck. And those pre-match confidence checks? "Do I feel confident? Am I ready?" That's like checking if you're relaxed every five minutes. The checking itself creates the problem. What If Confidence Is The Wrong Target? Here's a different way to think abou...

MAKING YOURSELF IMPOSSIBLE TO BEAT By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method The three words that matter Prepare. Prepare. Prepare. Everything else is noise. But most players prepare for matches the wrong way. They practice their weapons. Their power. Their serve. They prepare to dominate. Then the match starts, and they can't survive long enough to use any of it. The ancient general who understood tennis Sun Tzu never played tennis. He lived 2,500 years ago in China, advising rulers on how to win wars, where losing meant entire kingdoms would cease to exist. The book, based on his war strategies, " The Art of War ," is still a bestseller today. Not only has the plan for winning a war remained unchanged, but winning competitive sports has also remained the same. He wrote something that every tennis player needs carved into their racquet: "You cannot lose if your defence is strong. You can win if your attack is strong." Read that again. Both matter. Equally. H...

Tennis Match Preparation:  The 4:1 Rule for Peak Performance By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method Your match tomorrow is expected to last approximately two hours. During the last few weeks, how much time did you spend preparing for it? An hour or two each day? You may have hit 4 times this week. But here's the ratio that separates those who complain about their results from those who consistently perform: 4:1. Four hours of preparation for every hour you'll be on court. Minimum. That two-hour match needs eight hours of preparation. Most players invert this completely. They spend 45 minutes, four times a week, getting ready for a 2-3 hour battle and wonder why they begin to struggle in long matches, or why things that were working in practice start to fall apart. The four corners Think of match preparation as a table with four legs. Remove any one leg, and the whole thing collapses when it is first used. Physical Sleep. Nutrition. Conditioning.  This is the leg everyone sees,...

Why Elite Players Depend Mostly on Defence (And Win More Matches) By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method The Hidden Truth About Success in Professional Tennis Picture a tennis iceberg. Above the waterline— the crushing forehand winners, explosive serves, and down-the-line winners  that make highlight reels. But beneath the surface lie the most significant parts of your game that determine your wins and losses: keeping good depth on the ball during the rally , great anticipation, consistent return of serve, low unforced error rate, and the unglamorous art of staying in points. Here's the truth about achieving wins in high-level elite tennis: Winning is less about the 40% offensive part of your game—and more about the 60% defensive effort you put in. The Professional Tennis Reality Check Let me pose a question that should reshape your tennis coaching strategy: If your player were stepping onto the court tomorrow to face Jannik Sinner, what aspect of their game would you prioritise toda...

Teaching "Loading" Alone Is Ruining Your Players' Timing (And What I Teach Instead) By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method Every coach knows the importance of ground reaction forces in tennis. We teach players to "load"—bend their knees and thrust upward to create racquet-head speed. It's fundamental to every powerful groundstroke, serve, return, and overhead. However, here's the problem: teaching players to  only  load the ground creates  more timing issues than it solves. The Loading Trap That's Destroying Player Development Loading refers to a player interacting with the ground by bending their knees and thrusting out of that position to create greater racquet-head speed. While this happens on all good shots, the instruction to "just load" is backfiring for most players. Here's what typically happens: A coach tells a player to load. The player dutifully bends their knees—precisely what the coach wants to "see." For a small p...

  Master the Two-Handed Backhand: 4 Essential Tennis Techniques for Control and Power By Paul Dale | The 3AM Method Complete guide to developing a versatile two-handed backhand with professional-level control, spin, and directional accuracy The two-handed backhand can be one of tennis's most reliable and powerful strokes when executed with proper technique. However, many tennis players struggle with consistency and versatility because they focus on rigid grip positions rather than understanding the fundamental mechanics that create control and power. These five essential elements will transform your two-handed backhand from a defensive liability into an offensive weapon. By mastering hand positioning, power generation, and directional control, you'll develop the backhand versatility needed for competitive tennis success. 1. Bottom Hand Positioning: Controlling Your Contact Zone Length The bottom hand grip position directly plays a part in the length of your two-handed bac...