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  The Mental Trap That Stops Good Tennis Players From Succeeding Talent and hard work are not always enough in competitive tennis. Many players—some of them highly skilled—never reach their full potential because they struggle with  stress and pressure  during matches.  It’s not just nerves before a big point. It’s a mental pattern that builds up and slowly takes over: frustration after mistakes, fear of losing, negative self-talk, and panic when things go wrong. This article combines two powerful ideas that can help  coaches and players develop a healthier, more successful mindset for dealing with competition stress. 1. Tennis Is a Sport Where You Lose… A Lot Here’s a fact that surprises most people: In Novak Djokovic’s best season—when he was the number one player in the world—he  lost 46% of all the points  he played. That’s right. Nearly half the time, even the best player in the world didn’t win the point. Tennis scoring is unique. ...

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I recently worked with a young player who had made tremendous strides in improving her ball control. She had learned to balance her powerful game with better ball placement and reduce her unforced errors.  Her progress was obvious when she won a local tournament in her age group, defeating a national team member in the final. Notably, she won both the semi-final and final in the third set, showcasing her newfound ability to handle pressure and construct points more effectively. However, last weekend, she competed in an ITF event against a higher-ranked opponent and reverted to her old erratic self. Instead of maintaining her newfound control and confidence, she reverted to making repeated unforced errors. It was as if all her progress had vanished under the weight of higher competition. Why does this happen? And more importantly, what can be done to guard against players slipping back into old negative habits? "One of the biggest challenges for tennis  coaches is ensuring...

  The Necessity of Hitting Aces in Professional Tennis In professional tennis, the serve is more than just a way to begin a point—for advanced players, the ability to hit aces consistently is not a luxury but a necessity. Let’s explore why delivering aces is crucial and how it impacts a player’s overall game and match performance. Dominating with your serve is a crucial part of  professional tennis. 1. Serving Aggressively: Protecting Your Service Games Losing your serve can spell disaster, and often means also losing the set. Matches at the professional level are frequently decided by a single break of serve, and recovering from such a loss of serve can feel like climbing a mountain. This is why maintaining an aggressive mindset and aiming for aces throughout the match is vital. An aggressive mindset keeps you "honest". Hitting regular aces can save energy while also sending a psychological message to the opponent, signalling that they will have few chances to break your se...

  Why “Playing On” in Practice is Hurting Your Match Performance In many tennis practice sessions, whenever a player hits the ball out they “play on,” believing that the goal of practice is to hit as many balls as possible—prioritizing volume over accuracy. This mindset creates a dangerous disconnect between practice sessions and match play. The Problem: No Consequences in Practice In a real match, every mistake has a consequence. A missed shot could mean losing a crucial point, a break of serve, or even the entire match. But in practice sessions, many players ignore errors and keep hitting, assuming that "playing on" and sheer repetition will make them better. They're seeking comfort in their practice. Unfortunately, this approach leads to a (mentally) painful realization when they step into a competitive match: suddenly, every mistake matters, and the mental adjustment can often be overwhelming. The transition from practice to actual matches will  become a lot easier f...