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YOUR EMOTIONS ARE ADVISORS, NOT MASTERS: Your Hidden Superpower in Tennis By Paul Dale \ The 3AM Method Your Emotions Are Advisors, Not Masters: The Hidden Superpower Inside Every Tennis Match Every player has emotions on the court. The question is whether those emotions are working for you - or against you. Tehran, 1990. A Match I Have Never Forgotten. I have been involved in numerous tennis matches over the past fifty years. Most blur together eventually. But some stay with you in perfect detail --- not because of the score, but because of what you learned. This is one of those matches. I was captaining Thailand in the Davis Cup in Tehran. We were playing Iran on home soil, and the opening singles was between their player --- a big, powerful man built like a bull --- and our player, Danai Udomchoke, who was so slightly built that I imagine the Iranian crowd saw him walk onto court and quietly assumed the match was already decided. Danai Udomchoke represented Thailan...

Why Your Tennis Serve Breaks Down Under Pressure — And the Two Things That Fix It By Paul Dale \ The 3AM Method Most serve problems in matches aren't technique problems. They're pressure problems. Here's what to focus on when it counts. The Serve Is the One Shot You Can't Avoid If you can't hold serve, you can't win the match. That's not a coaching opinion. It's a fact of the game. Players with average groundstrokes but a reliable serve have competed at the highest levels, particularly on faster surfaces. The serve is the one shot in tennis where you control every variable — the toss, the technique, the timing, the target. Nothing the opponent does can affect those things. And yet, for many players, it's the first thing to go when the match gets tight. Double faults at 30-40. Serves that float. A toss that suddenly feels wrong. A motion that worked perfectly in the warm-up and seems to fall apart the moment a break point appears. If this soun...