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YOUR EMOTIONS ARE ADVISORS, NOT MASTERS: Your Hidden Superpower in Tennis By Paul Dale \ The 3AM Method Your Emotions Are Advisors, Not Masters: The Hidden Superpower Inside Every Tennis Match Every player has emotions on the court. The question is whether those emotions are working for you - or against you. Tehran, 1990. A Match I Have Never Forgotten. I have been involved in numerous tennis matches over the past fifty years. Most blur together eventually. But some stay with you in perfect detail --- not because of the score, but because of what you learned. This is one of those matches. I was captaining Thailand in the Davis Cup in Tehran. We were playing Iran on home soil, and the opening singles was between their player --- a big, powerful man built like a bull --- and our player, Danai Udomchoke, who was so slightly built that I imagine the Iranian crowd saw him walk onto court and quietly assumed the match was already decided. Danai Udomchoke represented Thailan...

Why Your Best Tennis Is Harder to Find When It Matters Most By Paul Dale  \ The 3AM Method You have the ability. You have shown it in practice. So why does it disappear in the moments that count? The Question Every Serious Player Eventually Asks At some point, every tennis player who is truly invested in the game arrives at the same uncomfortable question. I know I can play better than this. So what is stopping me? It is a question worth taking seriously --- because the answer is rarely about talent, and rarely about technique alone. The obstacles that stand between a player's potential and their actual performance during a match are real, specific, and largely hidden from conventional coaching. I have come to see these obstacles clearly. And what strikes me most is this: we spend the vast majority of practice time training for the game, while the obstacles that actually block performance live somewhere else entirely. "The gap between what a player can do and w...